Entries tagged with “clothing


Carnal Nation reports that “Scottish Women’s Aid, an organization dedicated to helping the victims of domestic abuse, has flatly refused a £600 ($1000) gift from 11 women who posed semi-nude for a calendar.” A spokesperson from Scottish Women’s Aid states, “We are opposed to the sex industry, and we have an issue with women removing clothes” as their reasoning for rejecting the donation. Certainly, the organization has every right to deny gifts from anyone they choose, but their reasoning does not sit well with me, especially coming from a feminist organization, and especially after reading that many of the women who posed for the calendar had been victims of domestic violence.

Generally, I’m a member of the boat that says that women should be able to define what they find to be empowering. We see this debate often regarding Muslim women’s modest dress, or hijab. Some people argue that the hijab is always demeaning to women, that it only serves to perpetuate the notion that women are naturally immodest and that men are inherently unable to resist their beauty. On the other hand, proponents of the hijab argue that wearing modest clothing creates an atmosphere in which women can be treated as human beings, rather than as pretty objects for men to look at. From my point of view, each perspective has its merits, and each woman should be able to choose to dress modestly or not depending on her opinion, without repercussions.

I have a similar attitude when it comes to nudity. Certainly, the porn industry can be incredibly degrading to women, especially in places where health and safety regulations are not enforced. On the other hand, nudity can be very empowering. If a woman feels confident, comfortable, and safe enough to take off her clothing of her own free will, it means that she has claimed control over her own body, and she is simply allowing other people to look at her body, as she chooses.

I feel like the assumption of Scottish Women’s Aid is that nudity is always demeaning to women. But isn’t that perspective harmful in and of itself? It implies that women always lack control over their own bodies. It takes agency away from women before they even have a chance to claim it–and in the name of feminism, no less. On some level, of course, I agree with their perspective. At times, female nudity can be demeaning. When female nudity is forced, or when the nude women are presented purely as sexual objects, it does take agency away from women. Some women take their clothes off merely for men to look at them, or out of pressure or coercion from men. But women can and should also have the freedom to choose when and for whom (if anyone other than themselves) they would like to remove their clothing. I think that women who make this choice out of a sense of self-confidence and self-respect are empowered women.

I just heard word about this lovely product, a Japanese-made bra that “has a built-in digital timer indicating how much time’s left before the woman wearing it must get married.” Sounds awesome. I love how it says that she “must” get married–what, is it going to blow up if she doesn’t stick the engagement ring/key in it?

I’m not too familiar with the situation in Japan in terms of marriage and families, but I don’t think the solution is to lure women into marriage by making ridiculous (and pretty useless) brassieres. The women who choose to work rather than have husbands and families are just weighing their options. Where will I get paid the most? Where will I feel most fulfilled in my everyday life? Where will I have the most financial security and independence? Where will what I do actually be of value to someone? A lot of women in the United States ask themselves the same questions, and for some women, the options just really seem limited. I think if there were better options for women who face this kind of choice, options such as flex time/part time work or free daycare or something to help them balance work and family, then maybe this wouldn’t be as big a problem. And maybe then we wouldn’t have to come up with really stupid ways to convince women to get married.